February 1st, 2008 - Love Messages

Love Messages
One Miao group celebrates spring and love during a colorful festival, the Feast of the Sisters.  Often it is a time of betrothal.   In an old tradition, girls seeking marriage prepare love messages for boys.   They color rice with natural red, yellow, or black dyes before wrapping the grains in a bit of cloth along with an object which communicates their marriage intentions.

A pair of chopsticks signals acceptance of marriage.   One chopstick means she refuses.   If the unlucky boy gets an onion with a pepper in his packet, he should look elsewhere.    Leaves or pine needles leave the door open: “all hopes will be entertained, on condition the young man clothes his intended with silk and satin.”    (Undiscovered China by Catherine Bourzat, p.l 142)

God has sent a love message to the Miao, too.   Rice sustains physical life, but Jesus, the Bread of Life, promises spiritual life.   Wrapped up with Him is the cross---the ultimate emblem of love.    But there’s a huge problem.    There are too few messengers to tell the millions of Miao/Hmong about God’s “love packet.”  

Pray: