I was feeling the internal struggle. Should I help WF’s father with his grandchildren’s school insurance and uniform fees? The two grandchildren, whom he and his wife have been raising since their son died had already been accepted in the school tuition-free and now they were needing 100 yuan per child for the extra fees. The family seemed to have so little and now they had to move close to the school. The grandfather would probably have to forfeit his dog business because of the move. He said he had spent much of his savings on the recent trip to Guizhou and his new roof. I wanted to help, yet I did not want to foster an attitude of dependence on me but rather encourage reliance on God to meet their needs.
In the end, I volunteered to help with this expense but inside I was still doubtful. Had I done the right thing? Later a friend told me that they did in fact pay the fees. I would be going to visit the father the next week. I was hoped the issue would have blown over and they would not raise it again or my offer of help. The next week after a time of Bible study, the grandfather did bring it up again and even asked the grandson to ask me for the help. “Have you paid for it yet?” I asked. “No, we haven’t paid it yet.” was the reply. Inside, I felt terrible. I did not want to go back on my offer but somehow I didn’t have the courage to confront them with their lie. Perhaps they only paid the money early because they knew I would help them and were afraid I would not help them if I knew they had already paid it. I wanted to give them the benefit of the doubt. But inside I struggled with discouragement about their spiritual state.
Later, the Lord comforted me with the fact that in the early stages of their Christian faith, those who have led them to faith really are God’s representative to them. They haven’t really had time to come to know Him in a very personal way. We are the Jesus they see, walking and talking. So it is not surprising that they would look to us to meet some of their needs. What an awesome responsibility for weak sinners like ourselves!
This past week I was able to visit again and there was still an air of anxiety about how they were going to make ends meet. Then we had an excellent time in the Word studying Matthew 6:25-34. Because of their difficulty with the language and literacy level, it took slow explanation of every phrase in that passage. In the end they seemed to understand its message and even shared ways in which God has been meeting their needs financially. In the midst of their worry for tomorrow, they’d forgotten He had provided for today. There was a real joy and peace in our time together.
These Bouyei have personally seen the power of God to free them from bondage to the evil spirits. Yet they do not know very deeply what it means to trust God or how to obey Him. It doesn’t mean they are not saved or don’t want to follow Him, but they will not automatically act according to the Biblical pattern. There is so much they have not even heard of yet!
Here is a summary of some prayer points for new believers taken from a small booklet called
Tearing Down Strongholds
- These young Christians can easily get the impression that the Christian life is a new set of laws or a new code of conduct which replaces the rules of their former religion. Then when the first wave of joy and exuberance fades or some prayers go unanswered, they could easily be tempted to withdraw into their old life.
- Pray for steadfastness in their new faith and for firm roots to take hold in God.
- They will not naturally be inclined to make a disciplined effort to spend time in the Word, particularly if they feel it is beyond their educational level and ability to understand. Satan will also undoubtedly seek to distract them or give them an aversion or coldness toward the Word. This coldness could also extend to fellowship with other believers.
- Therefore pray the Holy Spirit would teach them to read the Word profitably and apply it to their daily living.
- Before they are believers, there is no commitment to people outside of the family. These new believers need to begin to understand the reality and the function of the body of Christ, God’s family.
- The Holy Spirit must first deal with independence and pride and then give them courage and humility to face fellowship with other believers.
- Many new Christians do not have a clear sense of their own sin. God has loved them and demonstrated His power in their lives. However, this doesn’t necessarily elicit a great response of love for God unless they truly begin to realize they are sinners, undeserving of any of his wondrous grace. Along these lines, they may believe that God must fulfill their desires along their expectations. When this does not happen, they may feel God has failed them and no longer worthy of their allegiance.
- Pray they would have a deeper sense of forgiveness and unworthiness, leading to a true love relationship with Jesus.